Carmine,
Hi, I am so sorry to hear of your resent dx. I was dx's in Sept and still feel like I am on some type of whirl wind ride, and I just want to get off!
The good news for you is that you are a male, that give you much better success rates regarding receiving the neobladder (85-90% success rate in men) where in women it's on about 35%. The neobladder work just like a normal bladder, it's made from your bowel as an internal pouch and it connects to the urethra and urinate just like you always did.
The Indiana Bladder is an internal pouch made from the intestines and then you evacuate by catherizing thru a stoma (which is a hole in your abdeman) usually put where your belly button is/was.
An ileal conduit is when they hook you up to an external bag.
Being a male you do need to talk to your doctor about nerve sparing measures to avoid impatacy. Don't meen to scare you......
These are all things I have learned over the last 30 days by reading this web site and information available on the hospitals web site;
cms.clevelandclinic.org/cancer/body.cfm?id=521&oTopID=439
Good luck with your treatment, one doctor told me once, if you're gonna get cancer the best kind to get is 'bladder'.
Liz