I'm in then. It's an honor for me to take care of my husband, if he would only let me. I've backed off a great deal after I got him to talk to me about not waiting for this surgery that he needs so badly. He refuses. In 6 months, the in situ could move into his lymph glands. The doctor says it's a very aggressive cancer.
He is still digging in his heals and at times, I feel helpless to do anything. I just wish he would open up to somebody . . . anybody that has had experience with this.
I'll be here for him no matter what, but I never expected him to stonewall me on this.
Rayn