My husband was just diagnosed with T2 bladder cancer (muscle invasive) last week. He first saw the urologist on a Tuesday for a TURBT, saw the cancer surgeon on Friday, and we're scheduled for cystectomy on the 30th of July at a NCI site. Whew!
Now, we have to decide (really, HE has to decide, I'm just along for the ride) between the three major options: neo, internal pouch, or ostomy. He's self-employed, and we actually have to disability insurance that kicks in at 30 days, so we could choose a longer recuperation period.
He's 59, with rheumatoid arthritis, which is under control. He also has a stricture, which may have contribute to the tumor, so the surgeon is a little reluctant to recommend a neobladder.
Please......we could use some advice and information about recovery time, choices, etc.
I would appreciate any help you all can offer....
Stephany in Iowa