Alan,
They also have those pads you can wear instead of the full Depends undergarment. Need to wear tighty-whiteys with them but that's easier than the full Depends. At least it was for me before I switched.
I also use extension hose on my night bag. They come in 18" length. That way I can just toss the bag on the floor next to the bed (I usually kick it a bit under the bed). Just be sure there isn't a kink in it.
Are you leaving the valve from your ileal conduit bag open when you have the night bag connected to it? I don't think you should be having to get up to do anything--but again, I'm not a ileal conduit guy so maybe there is something I am missing.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...