michael...what did the final path report say? Were any of the nodes affected?..or just into the prostate?
Catheters are notorious for causing infection so i can understand why Dr. Koch did not want you using one. Mike uses a condom catheter in the evening which is a bit different i think. One gets extremely sleep deprived when trying to train the neo or the Indiana at first. Dr. Koch is a top rated uro/surgeon in the bladder cancer field and i'm willing to bet if you just hang in there you will get it trained.
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