Julie,
I have been where you are, I know the hurt you feel. I wish I had an answer for you, maybe he doesn't feel real well. One Monday we had to go to the Cleveland Clinic, I argued with Gene it was one week later, he said no it was this monday. We left a little late , got stuck in rush hour 7;30 am. He panics, I called the nurse, she said it was next week, by now we were there,I cried all the way home, I was going to the appt about the shot, this was all for him so I was really upset, like at least you could be sure about the date when I am the one who pushed him to get the shot which gives you the sex option .
The point is, we do do do for them, a little consideration for us would be nice....be sure he is just not feeling really bad health wise, and maybe discouraged, I feel for you, if I were there we would go out and have something, whatever your pleasure, margarita, wine whatever..take care and I hope things get better, take a siesta, day of shopping, or not, whatever you like..don't let it consume you...Ginger