my dad

Nicola..i'm so sorry your father was diagnosed at such a late stage. Here is some information from the NCI on Stage IV metastatic bladder cancer. I think it may be helpful for you and the family to understand.
www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/pdq/treatment/bladder/HealthProfessional/page10
Pat

i have been lurking here for a while,gathering information, our nightmare began before christmas, my lovely dad has found out he has mestatic cancer which has gone into nodes stomach,and i think also lung .he is having chemo for six months cisplatin and gemcitabine,he is finding it hard going,how affective is this type of chemo? has anyone had expereince with type of treatment? and is there any tips i can pass on to him.thankyou in advance.