Well Lucky teaching hospitals are some of the best in the country see that's why they have doors to come in or go out. One bad experience and I sympathize with yours if the residents were doing this on their own without permission which I doubt. But whatever you have to get over that it is in the pass and now you have cancer so you have to go to some hospital hopefully a good one and one you like.
Now I had a left blocked kidney and that was from the cancer growing in the ureter which they discovered during the TUR. Now I don't understand if you got both the Cysto and TUR done and they are not sure if you got stones or cysts they should know this by now seems to me. They put a double-j stent in my ureter and this opened up my ureter and got my left kidney functioning again.
I had a T2 G3 invassive tumor about 3 inches. I had all my work done at the Univ of Penn. The Tur, the pre-op chemo, and my surgery and after a long 6 months I did what I was told ,stayed focused as positive as I could and thanks to my team at Penn as of today I am cancer free.
Rosemary and momof4 have mentioned some great hospitals down there you definitely need a second opinion Lucky and I personally don't recommend the Cancer Ctrs of America. And the other thing there is no getting part of your bladder out you either do it or you don't and since you have cancer in the muscle wall your bladder needs to come out. Alot of folks try to save their bladders and in the long run end up doing more damage because now they end up letting the cancer spread instead of just facing the facts when they had their chance.
I mentioned the Cancer Ctrs of America I spoke with them a younger guy after I was already set up at Penn but just wanted to hear what they had to say. This guy is telling me what a bad hospital that Penn was and yet it is one of the best hospitals around in this area and also the country. This is cancer and they may be ok but you don't tell me about a hospital that has an excellent record that they are no good just to get business I wanted the best treatment I could get and to me I found it. I'll just throw in my links at Penn.
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Lucky all I can say now is you need to choose a hospital down there that you are satisfied with and speak with a good Uro/Oncologist or Surgeon and see what they have to say. Right now you are wasting time and at this point that is something you don't wanna do waste time.
The Dr's help heal us but we also heal ourselves and that is choosing a good hospital and next in line choosing a good team of Dr's to care for you. Lucky we all got but one life so you want to choose the best Dr's to take care of you. I wish you the best and once you have chosen your hospital everything will be fine, Joe