MZ,
You are very brave and well armed. You will always have your support behind you here.
We have a couple of things in common. My sister had 2/3 of her bowel removed about 8 years ago because of gangrene from a blood clot. We came within an inch of losing her. The Doc's took a long time to diagnose because I guess they weren't looking for a gangrened intestine. Surgery became an option in the nick of time. My brother-in-law is a minister, and the entire ministerial community came together at the hospital and formed a wide, solid ring of prayer. The Doctors told us that he just didn't know if she would make it. She did make it and she considers her life to be a miracle. And so do we.
My son has been recalled to Active Duty in the Army and will mobilize to Iraq sometime after June. It is very hard for me to talk about. Please know that I will be praying for you and for your son. I've got your back.
Your friend,
Rosemary