Hi Jillo -
I'm a 52 year old male 2 months out from RC and neo bladder surgery at University of Michigan. My leakage is very slight during the day, almost not at all unless I'm very full or very gassy! Also very slight at night, I get up usually twice to use the bathroom. I'm told it should still improve to no leakage during the day and almost none at night. So far I'm very pleased with my progress. Many folks progress to total control around the clock, but of course there are no guarantees. I'm able to void completely so I don't need to cath anymore. Just wanted to give you some info - best of luck with whatever course you take!
Andy