Jillo,
One thing the statistics that you will be looking at don't take into account is the skill of the surgeon. You will see many of us on this site pushing hard to get people to go to the top surgeons at the top hospitals.
Our reason for that is that those surgeons do the surgeries day in and day out and have more experience. If you are going to a top surgeon and you are only 44, then your chances of complications are much lower.
Along the same line, you don't want to be first person that your surgeon does using the DaVinci robot. If they have done 1000 surgeries but only a few with DaVinci, you want them not to use Davinci. If they've done hundreds with the DaVinci, then they have probably developed the necessary skills to be highly proficient with it.
Just something to consider....
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...