Dear Kat,
This is normal and try not to worry too much... I know you must be eager to see your Dad.
When I came out of surgery after my RC I also had the breathing tube and my family were told to wait until I was off it. Each hospital has differing rules I guess and some are more cautious and protect the family from too much distress.
If you really want to see him you could also just press upon them to allow you...
I am sure they will let you see him soon though...please be well prepared for all the tubes and machines around him.
I wish your Dad a speedy recovery....
Regards
Leigh
Leigh, 39
Dx July 2007
TURBT July 2007
RC/Neobladder ,Studer Pouch, September 2007
Erasmus Centrum Rotterdam
TNM Classification: pT4 N2 Mo
4 cycles aduvant chemo Gemzar & Cisplatinum