Hi Pat
I agree this website is "the bees knees" in bladder cancer information. The other main site is much less accurate, more into "feelings" and has by far a different feel to it, but I can't say the other is better.
When I was first dx'd I did lurk a tad, but not for long. The cancer was more rare and more advanced, and complications were a bumper crop for me. Time to learn would have been a luxury.
It has been 4 years all over the map - dx, turbs, rc, neo, chemo, cdiff ( a few times), bone tumors, failed neo, illeal conduit, etc. After all that has happened I can say I am a well educated medical consumer thanks primarily to Wendy S and Wendy R, Cynthia and especially Pat
Now I try to offer help when I have something to contribute. What hinders me is all the losses - Claire, Susan, Leigh and Lisa especially. I got really close to them on & off site and now I struggle with survivors guilt alot.
I know I should be posting much more than I do. I do admire you Pat for the diligence and compassion you have for each and every one who finds this website. I just haven't got a grip on things yet I guess. Love ya, Holly