Hi Britt,
I've been reading your posts and wishing I had some useful advice to offer. Clots in the urine can be a sign of bladder cancer. That's why doctors who assume infection and treat without any testing are practicing bad medicine. That's also why I made a point of reassuring everyone reading my post that I had a negative scope 2 months ago. In fact, it was the fact that I passed a clot 8 years ago that saved my life. I knew something was wrong, but my urologist did a urine cytology which didn't show any cancer and so he did nothing. A month later I passed a clot and he did the scope and found the cancer.
Dealing with all your other medical problems will certainly make dealing with bladder cancer one additional burden for you, but it doesn't increase your risk of having a bad outcome. If you have superficial (noninvasive) bladder cancer of any stage, with proper removal, treatment, and surveilance you should do fine and be able to keep your bladder. I had a high grade noninvasive cancer plus CIS and 8 years later I'm here with no recurrences even though I've suffered complications from the treatment.
The most important thing, as so many have told you, is to have an experienced urologist remove the tumors with adequate margins and deep enough into the muscle for proper staging, and then to have the slides reviewed by an equally experienced pathologist because ultimately your recommended treatment will depend on the stage (how deep into the bladder the tumor has invaded) and grade (agressiveness of the cancer) of your tumors.
Good luck. There are many folks on this board with more experience and knowledge than me about bladder cncer, so this is a great place for you to post your questions. I am a pediatrician so I have no experience with bladder cancer other than my own, but as a physician I can cut through the medicalese (incomprehensible doctor speak or mumbo jumbo) so please feel free to send me personal messages (questions) as well as hijack my threads
-Warren