well. all the tests , scans, and the biopsy is done. i have posted on other catagories and i sadly have ended up here.here`s what i have been through, july i went to the clinic and they sent me to a urologist, he had a ct scan done and diagnosid me with a large bladder tumor, had surgury in september, my follow up he told me it was a 3 inch tumor with deep muscle invasion, biopsy came back possible lymph invasion and a high metastic rate., i am a bad risk for a long surgery so i went with the chemo and radiation route. the oncologist had me do a pet scan that came back with a spot in my neck. that biopsy came back cancer. so it`s in my abdoman and my neck the dr said. i am have stage 4 cancer and am starting chemo next monday am . 6 rounds of 21 days. i have had a verry bad year and don`t know what to expect. dr told me survival is anywhere from 2-12 months to 2-3 years. i am trying to keep it together,