Jane,
I am so sorry. I know how hard this is...Please know that I am praying for you and your family. I hope that she goes peacefully and quickly, and that her suffering at this point is minimal. I can tell that she must have been a great mother since she seems to be surrounded by a strong, loving family.
With Love,
Karen
Caregiver for my Wonderful Husband Angelo, who has Metastatic Bladder Cancer.
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.