Well, good news is I got the catheter out yesterday after my RC/neobladder surgery on 10/8/08.
Bad news is I seem to have no control whatsoever. The urine just "falls out" would be the best description. I sure was hoping for the "Gee I'm daytime continent" that I've read others have experienced.
Last night was the first night and I must have gone through 6 pads or so. I got up every couple of hours (set the alarm for three hours but I kept resetting it each time I would get up so it never actually went off). I'd try to go and I could get some out but not much. Half the time it would just dribble out. Coughing would help clear mucous and a bit more urine.
I know this stuff happens but it sure is disappointing. I'd been looking forward to catheter removal. I will keep doing the kegels and hoping this gets better. Presently, it sucks.
Mike