Zack, perfect for what I was talking about in my post, I will not be as a caregiver taken for granted because at this point you can help out. Why call Molly Maid, the patient needs to see finally that you won't be used as there service person. Here's an example, the sad face, the touching of the bag, the many mentions throughout the day of whats next on the bowel practices,then getting a phone call for which he answers and in two seconds he is Prince Charming, BIG BELL RINGING HERE Even his golfing buddy Joe gets a degree of excitement from him,,I spoke to Joe the next day, he said Gene sounds really good, I said its amazing isn't it!After five months of breaking my back to get all the right doctors and all the right answers and giving up your life as well,don't be suckered into prolonging their everyday needs, let them do it, better yet, tell them to do it.
I let him know when I was well ready of the feeling it gave me, so beware, know when to expect more!!!!! Ginger