Hi All,
I'm new here, and I'm hoping you can give me advice and/or info.
My grandmother had a cat scan back in April that showed a mass on sitting on her bladder. After seeing a gynecological oncologist and determining that it was not related to her uterus or ovaries, she was scheduled to see a urologist. But on Memorial Day weekend, a few days before her appointment, the tumor broke through the wall of her bladder and she began hemorraghing. She was diagnosed at the hospital with Stage 2 Squamus cell invasive bladder cancer (I don't know any more specifics about her diagnosis).
She was told she's have to have her bladder removed, and surgery was scheduled for 8/1 b/c the doctor only does surgery on Wednesdays, and that was the earliest he could schedule her.
Yesterday, 8/1, her surgery was cancelled due to a snafu, we think, by the doctor's office. They claimed they sent her an instruction sheet saying her bowel had to be completely emptied (like for a colonoscopy). But we never got the sheet. So it was cancelled.
Now we're told she might not be able to have the surgery for another 3 or 4 weeks (not least because the doctor goes on vacation the week after next). In the meantime, my 82 year old grandmother is down to 81 pounds. (She has very little appetite, and it's all we can do to get her to eat something, though she's getting better at accepting that she'll have to eat even if she's not hungry.) We're of course worried that by the time she can have surgery again, she may weigh even less and be weaker!
I have a few questions:
-Is it normal to have to wait so long for surgery?
-What is the best way to get the surgery scheduled for earlier? We thought about having her family physician call the surgeon.
-Is there any advice you can give us?
I'd like to take her to a larger hospital or cancer center, but it doesn't seem like that's going to be possible.
Thanks for your help!