Hi Kat,
Well Bummer!! Actually in the hands of a surgeon trained in doing the Indiana pouch its not such a long surgery. Mine was 4hrs and 20mins. A lot of the surgeons do not want to do them as they are the most complicated but they are the most continent and i can refer you to papers to verify that. Just saw a paper today on continent diversions and posted it in Articles of Interest.
www.europeanurology.com/article/S1569-9056(10)00118-1/fulltext
oops you have to copy and paste that one as it didn't all come up in blue..start at the end of the sentence to the front to copy.
All diversions have a training period even the ileal trying to find the right appliance.
I see where Dr. Foster sort of specializes in female urology so if anyone can do an Indiana it ought to be him? But you do want to ask how many he does in a year or whomever you go to.
www.yalemedicalgroup.org/YMG/directory/public/profile.asp?pictid=65286&department=PB247594&physicianList=109186
And honestly, just me mind you, if i was in Conn i would get on the train to Memorial Sloan for a second opinion as there are a ton of specialists there for only bladder cancer. And you would love Micheal Donat
www.mskcc.org/prg/prg/bios/335.cfm
my best to you.....pat