- Kim, the daughter, said: Of course we are on pins and needles again now until Monday.
You remind me of my own daughters when I was first scheduled for surgery/TURB, then after the surgery while I was still "sleeping" the doctor talked to my husband and daughters. He said, "the stalk was much thicker than we had anticipated, I may have to take out her bladder." I heard later my oldest daughter started sobbing and crying then exclaimed "tommorow is her birthday, no fair." The doctor told me as I was awakening that he may have to remove my bladder and I yelled "that is not going to happen." Everything was tense and bleak for us that 5 days until we received the pathology report stating superficial papillary possible lamina propria invasion. I could keep my bladder. I know how tense and anxious you all are at this time and my heart goes out to you. It is a time, however where the love and caring brings all together in even closer family bonding. By the way, my initial pathology was downgraded a year later from a T1a to a TA, which meant no invavsion into the lamina propria.