Hello Shirley... I am so sorry to hear of your husband's diagnosis. Please NEVER feel bad about saying you are tired because we understand the exhaustion having or caring for someone with this terrible disease brings. That is not complaining... it is just a statement of fact.
I hope your consult brings new direction and information for you to work with. Please let us know how it goes, and know this is a safe place to share your own feelings and frustrations, as well as your husband's. My very best wishes to you both...
Best wishes... Catherine
TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
Vanderbilt Medical Center
Nashville, TN