Ginny, my husband was diagnosed with bladder cancer Dec. 2012 by a creepy uro just like yours. Hubby thought the guy was ok, but, he did 30 bladders a year. I wanted a true specialist, and found an oncologist/ urologist at Northwestern in Chicago. He does lover 200 cases of bladder cancer a year plus teaches students.
We had to wait a couple weeks longer to get the surgery scheduled, but it was worth the wait. The skill of thesurgeon doing the TURBT is very important. You want it done "right".
If doc #1 feels wrong by all means get the other opinion. You need to feel comfortable and confident with your uro.
Best of luck to you!