I donot know how much help I could be, but just know that everyone here will be thinking about you and your husband, and sending nothing but positive thoughts and prayers for a good outcome. Hang in there, I know its tough, but this can be beaten.
2/2011: diagnosed with non invasive Type1 stage1...and had turbt in march....first follow up 5/19/11, had laser again as it re-occurred.
10/12/2011 TURPT with more bladder laser....still non invasive..
11/17/14 diag. with CIS non invasive, beginning BCG 11/26/14
2/2015 BCG did not work, had another...