I'm sure there are good doctors in San Diego, but you said regional, in that case John Stein from USC/Norris is a very good, and woman-friendly uro-onc surgeon, the girls love him. The guys do to. The whole team over there is very top notch, including their uro-pathologist who's among the best in the country (Richard Cote).
Hope you are able to get in over there...I've heard a lot of good things.
Wendy