Wayne,
The ultimate goal here is to get rid of the cancer...Whether it be chemo, surgery, radiation whatever....there is no natural cure right now. But there are some things that look promising to stop the progression or to keep yourself clear AFTER SURGERY, or to avoid cancer all together IF YOU DIDN"T ALREADY HAVE IT. Once it is there, you have to do everything to get it out. In most peoples cases that means surgery with this cancer, it seems to be something that can't be avoided in alot of cases (at this time anyway). If your Dr.'s keep repeating that the only way to cure your cancer is through surgery, and you are hearing this with your 1st, 2nd, and 3rd opinions, that is just the way it is. I am talking more about future cures, or last ditch efforts maybe...but if surgery is an option...you are curing your cancer........that is the ultimate goal....it isn't possible for everyone.....and the longer you wait, the options get fewer and fewer, and bleaker, and bleaker...you are being handed your chance at a cure....don't miss it...
Wishing you the Best,
Karen