More Update:
Dad scared us again yesterday, with high fever, heart rate and bp. His blood cultures came back positive with a gram positive cocci, but the organism hasn't been identified beyond that...hopefully not VRE or MRSA! Should get those results today. He had the most fantastic nurse yesterday, who actually talked to me like a colleague and shared results with me, which was nice. Dad is still acting quite stoic and she was pretty good about encouraging him to take morphine...not sure why he is so against it.
They changed antibiotics to meropenum, a bigger gun,and hopefully after the results today they will know that they have the right one. His fever still shoots up every 4 hours, which causes most of the signs we are seeing, and tylenol does help to bring it down, so he is getting that every 4 hours regardless.
Just a quick update for now, the nurse said this morning he is "slowly" improving...stress on very slowly.
Anyway, thanks for listening everyone. By the way, for those of you waiting for surgery...I hope this isn't scaring you too much. Remember my dad is a highly uncontrolled diabetic (who I think they should have kept on insulin for the recovery phase) and this is what is compounding his issues. I also firmly believe that he was not a true candidate for the neobladder for this and a few other reasons. He has also not received the best of care...so please continue with your positive attitudes prior to your surgeries...most of the people had no, or very minor complications!
andrea