In all due respect, Cottage cheese will not cure cancer, no matter how much of it you eat. If it were me I would throw all the books you have on curring cancer with a diet in the garbage.
If you would like to see the results of someone who chose a "diet cure" over traditional medicine go to
www.stopdoingcancer.com
It is the log of a man who had the same stage and grade bladder cancer as your husband. He refused to have his tumors removed afer they recurred and instead followed the advice found in a book about curring cancer with a diet. The results were not good to say the least. If you follow the advice of traditional medicine you have a real good chance for a good outcome,and if you want to combine that with a diet, as long as it is a healthy diet there is nothing wrong with that. But I would concentrait on learning all you can about Bladder Cancer and following the advice of a doctor and spending very little time reading paperbacks written by "doctors" who claim to cure cancer with a diet.
KC