I think that as soon as you read this post, you should stop whatever else you are doing, and look for a Top Cancer Hospital in your area for a second opinion. Preferably with a Top Uro-oncologist. This is not just an annoying bladder infection that won't go away...this is cancer...I am sure that your Uro is a nice guy who makes you feel comfortable, but even he, if faced with this disease would ask colleagues for their second opinions...Don't just accept the status ...find out what the Top Cancer Specialists are doing to treat your cancer, whether it is superficial or more life threatening...Put a value on yourself...I know that your family considers you irreplaceable...you should treat yourself that way, and get the best medical advice you have access to.
Just My Opinion,
Karen