Hi Duane,
Sorry to hear about your reccurance...I can relate because I was diagnosed in Aug 07 T1G3, and I've had 2 reccurances since - multiple sites - (didn't really have time for treatment in between the 3 TURBTs). Having the RC Jan 18, so I feel your pain. :'(I'm also going for the outside bag even though I'm an active 48 year old ... I don't think I'll be able to handle the potential things that come along with a neobladder for women. Anyway, I'm really trying to stay focused on the vision of life back to almost normal...say by the summer. Try and do that too. I'll keep you posted as I find out things that I'm sure we'll both be interested in.
Take good care, and try to enjoy the holidays.
Marie