It takes a lot of energy to feel resentment, hate, disappointed and any other negative feelings. We have no time to waste our energy, we want to receive the good energy to be renewed. Enjoy the moments! I pray for you too.
If you are able to find humor in this present situation, then you both have lived a wonderful life together. Instead of looking at the suffering and being bitter and mad, you both have chosen to reflect on the blessings and love you both share.
I am so sorry to hear your story of bladder cancer. I hate HATE Hate! this disease and It really Pisses Me Off...... Literally.
Too many times we are given so many blessing and we never stop to think how lucky we are to have them. All because we have to endure a hardship. You are facing the greatest hardship and are looking for the positives.
We could all learn from you. And may God bless you both
Light a man a fire and he is warm for an evening.
Light a man ON fire and he's warm forever.
08/08/08...RC neo bladder
New Man! [/size]
Laura, Welcome to our forum sorry you have to be here but we are here to support and are here if you need us.
Sorry I had to remove you email for safety reasons. You would be surprised how many people try to use a forum such as your to scam people.
Good luck with your tee shirt fundraiser. "Bladder Cancer Pisses Me Off" was thought up by one of our users several years ago. I was voted down by the board at the time but left up to me it would be our national logo.
T2 g3 CIS 8/04
Chemotherapy & Radiation 10/04-12/04
RC w/umbilical Indiana pouch 5/06
Left Nephrectomy 1/09
President American Bladder Cancer Society