My mother has been through hell the past 4 years, in 2002 she was dx with non-hodgkins lymphoma, in 2003/2004 ureter cancer (lost a kidney), 2005/2006 bladder ca radical cystectomy and we just found out that it has now spread to her hip and jaw area. She is about to undergo 9 days of radiation and we plan from there for chemo??? Anyone out there with info on prognosis? I don't know what I'm up against this time. I don't know what to tell my brother or sister( I take care of my mom during these times) Please help me, I have a feeling that I really need to be stronger than ever.