Sorry about that John. Next time I will try to remember to include some good links in my message.
You may want to consider getting one of those little tape recorders to bring to your appointments with the doc since he talks fast. That way you can play it back a few times later and be sure you didn't miss anything. My uro told me that some studies showed that patient retention of conversations was something like 10-15%. I started writing down my questions prior to appointments and then took notes during the discussions to try to make sure I didn't miss anything.
Sounds like a good idea to ask your uro about the pain. If he isn't the right guy, I'm sure he could tell you who would be. I didn't have that type of pain. On my first occurence of bladder cancer (2006), I was having pain when I swung the golf club. I thought it was odd since you don't really use the bladder in a golf swing, but nevertheless, that is where it would hurt.
After my RC, no pain there but it didn't improve my golf game either.
Mike