Aimeth,
I am so sorry to hear this. I would talk to a few different hospice facilities about the choices. My experience was with my dad. He was at in an in house facility, very nice, beautiful grounds, peaceful, he was in a private room , french doors led out to a patio with a huge jasmine tree. They don't grow here in Ohio, so it was a pleasant site, the fragrance was overwhelming. If your family decides he is best at home, which I imagine is the choice of most, they determine how many visits are needed by how he is doing, I am sure his Doctor can help you out there as they co-ordinate it in that fashion. Whatever your choice my prayers are with you and your family, you certainly have been a caregiver that gave it her all, sometimes it just isn't enough to change what we would like to change. Hospice can be very helpful to you, I imagine a break here and there for you is well deserved. In any case you have my prayers...Ginger
I am so happy you did the Disney trip, many memories.
In Sept, 2004 we met my dad and his wife in Vegas, and other family members, the ones we just got home from Vegas with this time. Never thought I'd be with my dad in Vegas, he ate it all up, being with 4 of his children, he was a very colorful person. That March 2005, he died, therefore the trip was more special than I ever realized,,many memories!!