My husband is having his RC with a neobladder on January 22. He had his left kidney, ureter and bladder cuff removed 2013. I told our children "we are lucky he can have his kidney removed along with the cancer". Well, it came back and now he needs his bladder out. I told our children "we are lucky he can have his bladder taken out along with the cancer", but now they are questioning me - it came back before will it come back again? I have been reading where many people have had their bladder taken out and the cancer shows up somewhere else. Is there anyone out there that has had their bladder out at least 7 years and the cancer has not returned? I'm really beginning to get scared and am not sure how to answer our kid's questions.