I had a partial cysectomy almost 11 years ago. I’m not going to address the sex question, but being too active too soon could cause an incisional hernia. I have a small one near the bottom of my incision which I think may have been caused by picking up my dog too soon. I had a catheter for almost 4 weeks post op as my bladder healed and at six weeks started walking a mile to ease back into physical activity. I was fairly physically fit at the time of my diagnosis. Even though things may seem healed on the outside, the inside incision also has to have time to completely heal.
There aren’t many of us ‘partials’ here, and I wish you the best outcome and many years of good health ahead.
Best wishes... Catherine
TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
Vanderbilt Medical Center
Nashville, TN