Hi Cynthia,
I'm not sure if I replied to your very informative message. I've been trying to find my way in this new world I'm in.
I wanted to get the Indiana pouch, but my surgeon discouraged that procedure. So I have an ileal conduit and I am not very happy with it. I've had a number of leaks, and each time that happens I do learn what not to do next time.
I have great confidence in my surgeon - she is excellent. I will be seeing her this Monday for my second follow-up visit. I have a list of questions for her, the first one concerning sexual intercourse with my husband. I have no idea what to expect now. Another not fun adventure I guess.
On top of everything else, I fell two weeks ago and broke a bone in my foot, so now I am hobbling around with this big old boot on my foot. It never ends.
Anyway, I do thank you for your kind advice and I appreciate you sharing your experience with me. I'm two months out from surgery and still learning.
Thanks again,
Mary