Wow! That nurse sucked! On the bright side, I'm guessing your intestines have awaken.
While it isn't fun, I can tell you from personal experience that diarrhea is better than not having them wake up for 12 days. Might not seem like it right now, but you are on your way to recovery.
On the topic of the anti-nausea drugs, apparently I had a big interaction with phergan. My night nurse turned into a centaur. I got all messed up on that stuff and pulled out everything except the foley catheter (NG tube, multiple IV lines) and all of my clothes (if you count a hospital gown as clothes).
It sure was embarrasing when I came out of the delerium and had to call for a nurse to help me get untangled from the tubes, get IV's back in, and get 'dressed' again.
My wife had even warned me and I had even told them I didn't want phenergan but the nurse said she didn't have any Zofran or something like that. Said she'd only give me a little phenergan and it shouldn't cause a problem. NOW I list it as an allergy on my arm band if I am in the hospital.
The part that's too bad is that it was a different nurse that had to do all the work to get me put back together again. It should have been the nurse that decided phergan was ok to give me. If I wasnt' wasted on morphine, I think I'd have put up more of a fight when she said she'd just give me a little.
I hope your recovery from this point on improves quickly, the diarrhea gets under control and you're able to get something to eat soon!
Oh yeah, the correct answer to her statement about crying is "I'm crying because you are an EVIL B*TCH that doesn't belong in nursing and I'm recovering from surgery and don't need any of your crapola AND if you think I'm cleaning this up let's just get the nursing supervisor down here RIGHT NOW so he or she can explain who gets to do the cleanup and how you go about claiming unemployment!". I haven't copyrighted that quote so feel free to use it if the need ever arises again. I hope it doesn't.
Mike