From my experience working on an ambulance, here are some tips on the medication allergies you asked about...
1) They ask you WHY you are allergic because there are a bunch of people who "say" they are allergic when they just don't really like the side effects, for example, my son thinks he's allergic to spaghetti. He's not - he just doesn't like it. I am not allergic to Cipro, but if you give it to me you will be seeing whatever I ate within the last week very quickly. Good info to have.
2) If you are really, truly allergic and will have an anaphylactic reaction, your throat will quickly swell up and if they do not treat you very quickly they will have to cut a hole in your throat and put you on a ventilator. In that case, they have meds and tools that will counteract that reaction. They will absolutely plan to have them ready and waiting if they may be necessary. This is life threatening and they need to know this up-front.
3) A lot of people use the category "allergic" to entail a lot of different reactions. Such as becoming combative (Mike!). He's not going to have an anaphylactic allergic - he has a bad reaction - VERY bad. Feel free... VERY, VERY free to tell them that you get combative if given a medication! They will probably not give it to you considering the danger to themselves.
Getting them to understand about our surgeries is something different. Either me or my husband makes it very clear that I have a "FAKE BLADDER" that MUST be manually emptied. That seems to cut through the fog of medical terms. The medic alert bracelet never worked, so I stopped wearing it. I'm thinking a tattoo might be a good investment... a big one. Kinda like the big "NO" on the arm, but permanent. (Gee, won't that be sexy?) You never know when you might be brought into the ER unconcious from a car wreck and without someone to speak for you. If you have to cath and are not concious, they will NEVER suspect it. NEVER.
Concerning input/output from IV's, any nurse or doctor should understand that if it goes in, it must come out, but they don't always think about the "out" part immediately. All I can recommend for that is to make sure you have someone who can track this for you if you can't do it yourself. Make sure they understand this easy principle of in/out and have them keep tabs on the staff that does this. Have them ask how much fluids you got in surgery or in the last 4 hours, and that what's in the foley bag is pretty close. If it's not, you got issues and they need to fix them. The best thing you can do for yourself is to train someone you know will be there if you are in the hospital to care for YOUR NEEDS. They do not need to be medically inclined, just willing to question the nurses and doctors tactfully and cover your back when you are down.
Sorry to be so long winded, but what we have is not that common in the medical community. We need to be our own advocate and also to train someone else to advocate for us. When required, ganging up on them can be quite effective... just make sure you do it tactfully. WE know what's going on and what to do and need to both educate our nurses/doctors and insist on specific procedures when necessary. WE ARE THE EXPERTS. An ER doc or endocrinologist or even a regular urologist has no clue about our needs. Worst case, do what you can until the next shift comes in and start over with the new staff. They usually work either 7-7, 7a-3p, 3p-11p, and 11p-7a...
OK, that's my advice for what it's worth. Good luck!
Christine
(been to several ER's since RC)