I never had any of the bathroom frequency problems or infection problems that some do until a few months prior to being dx'd. Because mine was invasive and a very aggressive cancer, all doctors I spoke with recommended the RC. It was the scariest thing I have ever had to do but handled it with grace and peace as a result of my faith and trust in God and the great advice and support I was give by folks here on the forum...especially Pat and Holly. They are my forever heros.
My journey through and beyond cancer has been the hardest but most rewarding adventure of my life. I learned so much and gained more than I lost. If I had to undo it...I would not. Besides, with my Indy pouch, I can go longer between bathroom breaks than most friends my age and don't have to get up during the night unless I drink lots of liquids or dine on fruit during the dinner hour. I love being able to stand up and pee like the guys and have even practiced writing my name in the snow.
I feel very blessed. Melodie