Hi Joyce. My name is Giff, and I could have written your entry, that is exactly what I went through 5 years ago including the Chemo treatments, surgery, stoma etc. I am an 82 year old guy that is still pretty active. I am now in immunotherapy to try to try to control any spread of the cancer. I will not take much of your time or forum space, but will just say that we have been dealing with the exact situation that you described.. Although we live in Southern Mississippi, we used MD Anderson in Houston, TX for everything except the Chemo treatments and did those here. I know you will have questions about the stoma situation, how to handle that, supplies, and a multitude of other things. I won't go into all that here, yet, but my wife has become an expert in taking care of me. and any question you may have, can probably be answered by one of us so keep my info handy as you proceed through the process. We also belong to the local chapter of the UOAA which has been extremely helpful in our learning experience, so you may want to try to find a local chapter near you.
And just as an aside, we moved here after retiring from the Air Force in Southern California (Vandenberg AFB) and I grew up in Santa Monica, so am familiar with that area of the country.
Blessings and the best of luck in your journey.
Giff Ormes