Welcome Danno,
Perhaps the best site that is bookmarked on diversions is:
my.clevelandclinic.org/health/treatments/12546-urinary-reconstruction--diversion
The most important items are: most people adapt and accept whatever diversion they choose. Also, make sure whichever diversion is picked that your surgeon has done many of these (25+ a year), as some will direct patients to what they are proficient in. This may mean going to a university or teaching hospital.
Ask away as you go.
