I am hoping someone will reply to your email as I am in the same situation. I live in Nashville, Tn. I just got back from an oncologist physcologist appointment this morning. I am in a fog and feeling overwhelmed. I also had a tumor removed two weeks ago and my urologist said to have the chemo and then the surgery to removed my bladder, Has anyone else had their bladder removed? I am a 64 year old female.