Scared! Looking for advice!

THAT is great news! Now go and enjoy the rest of your life!

I know it is a cliche but, in almost everything, especially medical unknowns it is "one day at a time"! That is all we can control. Lot's of survivors here and we all support you!

First, I am going to give you our "Standard Forum Beginner's Advice"...which is "take a deep breath." Until you have the results of further tests...especially the cystocopy...
you don't have any idea that you might have bladder cancer. IF the CT scan and the cystoscopy are suspicious, the urologist will schedule you for a TURB (transurethral resection of the bladder) where he will take samples to be sent to a pathologist and remove any tumors he sees. Only after the pathologist's report is in-hand will you know for sure if you have bladder cancer or not. And even if it IS cancer, it would be extremely unlikely that it could have spread as far as your liver. You are also on the young end of the spectrum for having bladder cancer...not that people your age don't get it, but it is much less likely than for an older person. And also remember that in most cases bladder cancer is highly treatable.

I realize that I can't answer your BIG question, but hope that I have given you a little breathing room so that you can put off the panic for a bit.

Please remember that we are here and will try to answer your questions as they come up...and they will. Wishing you all the best

Sara Anne