You must really be busy with two such little people to care for!! You really don't need the complication of possible bladder cancer on top of it!
First, a few bits of information...you will not know for sure what you are facing until the pathology report come back from the TURB. The urologist can be "pretty sure" it was cancer, but not 100%. If it is indeed "low grade" (which we will hope) that would be good news, of course. The urologist should then put you on a schedule of cystoscopy every three months for two years, every six months until five years have passed since diagnosis, and annually forever. The reason? Bladder cancer, even low grade, has a nasty habit of coming back and if it does you want to be sure it is found early. Many many people never have it return.
Even if it is "high grade," early bladder cancer is very treatable.
We will be wishing you the very best
Sara Anne