Welcome to our very selective club, with rather weird membership requirements! Sorry that you had to join.
If indeed your diagnosis is low grade and localized, your urologist is recommending the standard treatment plan ....which is basically a careful watch. You MUST BE SURE TO KEEP THOSE APPOINTMENTS since bladder cancer has the nasty habit of returning.
If you want to seek a second opinion in the Philadelphia area, I used our site's Treatment Center Finder (under HELP at the top of this page)
and found this
www.pennmedicine.org/urology/patient-care/urologic-conditions-treated/urologic-cancer/bladder-cancer.html
Also, if you wanted to travel a bit farther, Johns Hopkins in Baltimore and Memorial Sloan Kettering in NYC are world-famous.
Good luck to you
Sara Anne