Hello Sparks sorry you have to be here but welcome to our community. I think I once read but not sure we're that three out of ten women with neos experience either hyper or inconstance. I am not sure what the stats are for men but while they can experience the same it seems that we hear more of night time inconstance with men.
The truth of the matter is that there is no perfect choice they all can have issues. I have an naval stoma with a Indiana Pouch and am happy with it. It sometimes gets pouchitis and will leak a little but I have gotten used to dealing with its occasional moods. No matter what you decide Indianas and Neos have a training period and all have a learning curve.
We do not have woman active right now with a Neo but maybe one of our lurkers will chime in. If you have any questions about the Indiana let me known.
Cynthia Kinsella
T2 g3 CIS 8/04
Clinical Trial
Chemotherapy & Radiation 10/04-12/04
Chemotherapy 3/05-5/05
BCG 9/05-1-06
RC w/umbilical Indiana pouch 5/06
Left Nephrectomy 1/09
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