Jess, I'm so sorry that you are having these issues. I know it's scary, because most of us on this site have been where you are now. The sooner you get checked out and diagnosed, the better you'll feel.
I found this forum back in May when I was first diagnosed. The knowledge and support of the members here are both invaluable.
My symptoms were very visible blood in my urine, some minor urgency when my bladder was full, and a need to really push to totally empty my bladder. After I was diagnosed with bladder cancer and the tumor was removed, the blood in my urine and the urgency went away, and I no longer struggled to fully empty my bladder. Your symptoms are similar to mine with the exception of pain - I had no physical discomfort; however, just because our symptoms are similar, it does not mean that your diagnosis will be the same as mine. I strongly urge you to go and get yourself checked out ASAP. If possible, go to an NCI center that specializes in bladder cancer.
The waiting, wondering, and feeling lousy is the worst part.
Take care and keep us posted.
LilyG