rheumatologist, nephrologist now urologist!!

Thank you for your response. I had my appointment with the urologist today and she has ordered a CT scan and a cystoscopy. My cystoscopy is scheduled for OCT 15th and I'm in the process of scheduling the CT scan. We'll see :/

It started approx August of 2013 when I was 22 weeks pregnant. During a routine visit they discovered protein in my urine at which point they began to monitor me closely for any possible complications. Yay!! In January I delivered my last baby healthy and beautiful. Unfortunately, the protein did not go away. At this point nobody seemed concerned and the doctor explained that some people spill protein. Fast forward a year later I am in my General Prac dr's office and she informs me that I have blood and protein in my urine. I also have hair loss going on so after she runs a lupus test (lupus test number 2) she sends my to a rheumatologist who runs lupus test number 3; all negative. My 24 hr urine shows that I have 405mlg , 3 times the norm. She then sends me to the nephrologist who orders a renal ultrasound and blood panel. I appear healthy, slightly anemic and the ultrasound revealed a swollen urethra. I am now scheduled to see the urologist for consult and scheduling of a cystoscopy. I'm nervous , scared, overwhelmed and consumed with what could be wrong. This process has exhausted me and I'm ready to just stop the madness and go about my life as if nothing is wrong.

How abnormal is it to have blood in your urine for 1 plus year(s)? Should I continue on with this process? Is 405mlg of protein significant for ongoing test? Confused and tired.