Hello and greetings from TampaBay Fl
I like to thank you for your posts, replies and most important your advise.
I did in fact go to H L Moffit ( a NCI rated hospital ) , armed with every report, cd of cat scans and results of fish tests
Waited till I was seen within the urology dept , the place was quite analyzing , my tests results were takin, digested and I met with a surgeon who had consulted with a oncologist
Bottom line was that they agreed with the plan my doc had mapped out. With the only suggestion being the resulting bone scans and cats if came up clean go ahead if not pursue chemo first
Well all scans showed up negative, nodes were the same sizes for three scans
So on 24th I had a radical ( kidney taker outer , tube and cuff of bladder) my words not theirs
Just getting back on my feet and all pathology is great as it was stage one , self contained and nothing in nodes
So thank you all who grounded me at a time when I needed it ,
Thank you